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Dating Advice Blog For Men "STRATEGIES" How Meet And Attract The Woman Of Your Dreams
Most of the time we think it’s the clothes, the money and the pickup lines that attract women. As usual, most of the time we are wrong and have no clue when it comes to the essence of attraction. Men think it’s all external, the truth is it’s internal…
What women are really after is that vibe, that feeling that makes them tingle. Women have a type (let’s not ignore this), they have a type and so physical appearance is important. Being her type puts you ahead of the pack and gives you that initial in… But, and here is the clincher, if she doesn’t feel good in your presence, the attraction isn’t sparked and that “vibe” fails, It simply won’t happen… No matter what!
If on the other hand you have your shit together, healthy self-esteem, communicative ability, dating insight and experience to back it up, the vibe literally seeps off. She will feel something that will bypass everything else, the clothes, money, good looks and pickup lines. This is called attraction.
It’s not about the outside, it’s about the inside. She does like success, money etc, but this must come as a bonus to an already great guy – a guy with a vibe. You cannot substitute that vibe for external trappings but you can substitute these trappings for a vibe. She must feel it not just see it!
Superficial men are insecure and women see through it! We as a race try to avoid insecure people but literally hate superficial people. When you are both insecure and superficial you literally repel women. The more you over compensate the worse it gets. It’s a horrible circle, trying so hard to impress the girl and failing even more.
If you have been caught up in this trap and perhaps recognize the danger of overcompensating with superficial trappings to attract women… It’s time to make some changes, to work on what really matters and get your shit sorted!