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I’m Scared To Pick Up Women

I’m Scared To Pick Up Women

What are your fears when it comes to picking up women?  I can bet that it’s all very counter-intuitive. Try these for size, see if you can relate?

1, Fear of not making a good impression

Trying to impress women actually works against you, this is not how the dating game is played.

2, Fear of not having things to say and talk about

This fear comes from the belief that a woman is the the only prize in the interaction and so she must be sweet talked. The reality is, she should also have to come up with things to talk about to keep you interested. There are two or more people involved in any interaction. Never forget that!

3, Fear of failure

She also misses out if it doesn’t work out. Your concern should be that that she failed to impress you as you initially liked her. Its a loss for both of you.

4, Fear of negative opinions, hers and others

This is a sign of low self esteem on your part. This is unattractive and you should work on this. We should be the center of our lives, while other people are our guests. Other people’s opinions should not matter if you believe in yourself as doing the right thing.

5, Fear of feeling like a fool

Taking action in meeting women is empowering and leads to personal growth and success.

6, Fear it won’t go well

It won’t go well for whom? It should always go well for you. You took action leading to growth and eventual success. How can that be failure, even if this particular one does not work out? You are following your natural desires as a man. It’s normal and healthy to want to meet good women.

7, Fear of a destroyed ego

Good! An over inflated ego is false, fake, and holding you back. Your ego is a crutch, an over compensation for low self esteem. This is even more of a reason to take action.

8, Fear she won’t like you for whatever reason

Seriously, toughen up! Again, you are also a prize. Re-read the above seven fears until they are burned into your head!!

9, Fear of not having good game

At the end of the day, anything is always better than nothing. Experience is the best teacher. If you put yourself out there, take a chance and fulfill your natural and healthy drives to meet women, this will only lead to success and happiness. Don’t forget the increase in self confidence.

If you want an experienced helping hand to guide you along the process and show you real-time how all of this works. Join us on one of our Live Dating Bootcamps. We run our events all around Australia and specialize in both night-time and day-time environments.

About – Colin has been running dating bootcamps, closed group workshops, and working with clients on a private coaching basis since 2006 during which time he has learned a considerable amount about the self development process and how to help men with dating. Colin is a regular blog contributor, writer and speaker based in Sydney Australia.

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Colin offers professional dating coaching for single men Australia wide. Since 2008 Colin has helped hundreds of clients to meet their ideal partners and settle down. To begin working with Colin, simply book in a free 20 minute consultation.
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