Hi again from Craig. I want you to picture this: You’re at an office party, sitting by the bar alone. The latest pop song from a young boy band is playing. Although the lyrics were a bit off (they kept singing “I’m glad you came”), everyone else was singing to its tune. Someone even said that the boy band is phenomenal. Unbelievable, you think. You could’ve written those lyrics in your dreams.

And then she walked into the room in all her awesome glory. As if on cue, everyone looked at her direction. Some stopped to stare at her legs that seem even whiter and longer in the little black dress that she’s wearing. Your heart skipped a beat. She walked toward you, took the empty seat beside you and looked you in the eye. In your mind, you only had one thing to say… I’m glad you came.

Now, I want you to imagine what you’re going to do, what you’re going to say, and how you’re going to react.

…

So how was it? Did you talk to her? Did you ask her if you can buy her a drink? Did you compliment her look? Did you even make a move?

If you answered no to everything, then I tell you, you’re sure out of luck. If you can’t even talk to her in your wildest imagination, then what can you do in real life? Boy, oh boy. I already feel sorry for you.

Now, this is when you need to ask yourself do I need help? If you do, what kind of help do you need?

Dating coaches are everywhere, but if you’re going to hire one, you better make sure that you’ll get the best out of it. Before I tell you the benefits of having a dating coach, here are some tips first that will help you decide if you need to hire one.

1. You cringe at the very sight of her. Her ID picture even makes you blush.
2. You can’t seem to concentrate when she’s around. 50 meters, 5 meters, it doesn’t matter. As long as you can smell her, your mind will surely be floating.
3. You stutter. (Only applicable if you’re older than 7-years old)
4. You tend to be clumsy when she’s around. It seems as though your palms have holes in them.
5. You could totally (totally!) imagine yourself with her. What you can’t picture as of now is how you’re going to do that.
6. You day dream about asking her out for lunch every day. You day dream every day. You day dream. Every day.
7. You doodle her name with your last name on the back of your documents (So how old are you again)?
8. You wish you have someone who can help you. (Clear sign. Obvious sign)

If you’re still reading this, then congratulations! You’re now ready to ask for professional help.

Good dating coaches are hard to find. Some may boast of being a good dating coach, but the results aren’t that good. The closest you got to actually getting a date is when you took the same dating coach for lunch because the person you were expecting didn’t come.

A professional dating coach will not only help you land a date. He or she will also help you build the confidence that you’ve been lacking for years. This confidence will be the only thing you need if you want to finally take the girl of your dreams out. A dating coach is also a fashion consultant. If you’ve seen Hitch and Crazy, Stupid Love, then you probably have an idea. Apart from being fashionable, dating coaches are, more often than not, DROP DEAD GORGEUS. These movies made it obvious by casting Will Smith and Ryan Gosling (Settle down, girls. Settle down).

Although all of their characteristics sound good, here is something for you to remember: a dating coach is not your best friend; he is in fact your best critique. He will let you know of everything that is wrong about you, everything that needs to be changed. But trust that there is always a good intention behind everything that he says or does.

A good dating coach’s job doesn’t end at the first date. This pro also follows up. He gives good dating advice for men, and these words of wisdom are applicable beyond the realms of your first date. His dating tips may not always sound smart, but after you’ve done whatever it is he tells you to do, you’ll realize that his advice is pure genius.

So if you feel like you need help, you better start getting professional dating advice now. I’m so ready if you are.

Craig

Day Game Dating Australia

We would love you to join Day Game Dating for a pick up women bootcamp program or private coaching session. We are running our course all around Australia and have both Day-time and Night-time options (Day Game/Night Game).

Our courses would have to be the best out there when it comes to dating coaching for men. We have been operating since 2006 and have literally had 100?s of happy clients come through. The best place to begin is to get onto our FREE mailing list where you can also pick up a copy of my eBook The Five Vital Principles for Picking up Women. Follow the link below to get onto this list;

http://daygamedating.com.au/newsletter

Life is to short to be unhappy, to be lonely and emotionally unfulfilled. Up until now, if you are struggling to meet and attract women and you just don’t seem to be able to work it out…You have a Life line. Day Game Dating has coached hundreds of clients since 2006 in getting their dating lives sorted. You can take advantage of our skills and experience. Check out our website and book a coaching session today.

Thanks for reading.

Colin Dubb

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Hi all, Colin here again.

It was that time of the week where I had scheduled myself to sit down and write another article for the ‘Day Game Dating’ Blog. When brain storming some topics and working through some ideas that could help the men out there reading this, I decided on TWO things. The first would be to discuss the type guy of that is MASSIVELY successful with women. The second would be to throw in a shameless plug-in for our company, just so you really understand how much thought and detail we put into our dating courses. So let’s get started!

Most Guys

There is nothing more incredible for a guy to finally develop the skill set to be able to consistently cold approach women and receive positive responses. If you really think about it, then truly this is a remarkable achievement.  In my mind there are “FOUR” types of men that you see out there. The “FIRST” type of man has no confidence in his ability to approach women, and so he never acts. He will usually look at a woman from afar and spend his time wondering what could have been. The “SECOND” type has moved past his fear of approaching, as in walking up and initiating something with a woman. This is not the issue. Where he fails is with his responses. Women just don’t react well to him. These lack of positive responses prevent him from having any potential success. Then you have the “THIRD” type of guy. This guy knows how to approach women and when he does begin and interaction, the women are usually receptive to him and respond well. So over time he develops great social skills when it comes to initiating new friendships. You see even though this guy is confident and attractive to women, he simply does not go past the point where things move onto a physical level. (Again I am talking on a consistent basis.)  Then you have the “FOURTH” guy, the successful and consistent guy. And this is the guy I would like to talk about.

The “Fourth” Guy

Not only is this guy confident in approaching and receiving positive responses, but he is also able to take his interactions with women and move them past the friendship zone and into, what I call ”THE LOVER ZONE.” This is the guy at the bar who after a few minutes into his approach is already physically advancing. This would usually include, hugging, dancing, grinding and kissing. From the woman’s point of view, she is clear on his intentions and happy to accept his advances. So what is it that separates guy number “four” from the rest of the pack, why is he so successful?

This is now the part of the article where the shameless self promotion comes in for Day Game Dating. It’s all worth it though as it’s important that you understand this next point. We are a company that teaches our clients the subtleties of success with women that will eventually allow you to have the same results as guy number “four”. I don’t believe that most people even recognize them and therefore can’t explain it. By the way, all our coaches are able to go live into the field and demonstrate everything taught. Once you see it, you will believe that anything is possible!!

What are some of the traits that allow for this type of success?

Well for starters, this guy knows himself, what he is about and WHY he is valuable as a man. As a part of this he recognizes that what he is offering to a woman is valuable and that she largely benefits. Operating under the assumption that both him and her will win, he becomes extremely clear with his intentions, what he wants out of the interaction and what he is willing to give in return. This allows for clarity on his part and the minimisation of pointless thinking and waisted energy. In other words, he is prepared and operating on instinct. He has purpose! This clarity and purpose removes self doubt and enables a SEDUCTIVE level of communication. Not only is this HIGHLY attractive to women, but it also allows him to take control and move things forward. He is now choosing the direction of the interaction.  Women want a man that is a good communicator, but most importantly has a strong sense of self. A man who likes himself and is comfortable in his own skin. This is the essence of guy number “four”.

I have briefly described something that is common to all men who are successful with women. All our coaches exhibit these traits, but most importantly have the ability to pass on the knowledge and teach them. We are a dating coaching company that demonstrates to our clients how to go further with women and reach higher levels of success. If you have not been getting the types of women that you feel you deserve, I STRONGLY suggest you look into one of our courses.

I hope you are able to grasp the importance of becoming this “fourth” type of guy and finally get this part of your life handled.

Talk to you soon.

Colin Dubb

Want to know more about what we do?

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>NOTE: This article was written by Craig an expert dating coach at ‘Day Game Dating’. Craig started with the company in mid-2007 and has built up a large following of loyal client’s. Craig regularly runs “bootcamp sessions” or can be hired for “private coaching.

DURING THE DAY we have TWO OPTIONS after our short interaction with women.

We either ask her for her phone number and get on with the rest of our day as planned, or we INVITE her to join us now for a coffee, cake, or whatever we feel comfortable doing.

The point of both these scenarios is to end up on a DATE together where you can move the INTERACTION between the two of you forward by building a STRONGER CONNECTION, ATTRACTION and RAPPORT.

What is important to understand is that when you do eventually use her phone number to set up a MEETING, (or use the instant date option),  the DYNAMICS of the situation change. Now it’s about the TWO OF YOU coming together with the potential of something happening. The PRESSURE is now on because you are both on this DATE for a SPECIFIC REASON,  to find out more about each other and to see how compatible you can be.

Now I’m sure that the girl you are with has been on a few dates in her life and has her own specific way that she will HANDLE this meeting between the two of you.

The real question is… How will you handle it?

I do cover the date on the day game boot camps and private coaching. This is a very important part of the whole process and without the proper understanding of what to do and how to behave. You may still run into difficulty. Keep in mind that I also have a follow up system so that you are not alone after our time together. I want you to succeed! 

What to do on the date, is a whole ART in its self and would take a lot of time to go through and explain everything in one short post. But,  like anything that you are LEARNING IN LIFE, if we have some simple but effective PRINCIPLES to help us get along in the meantime. Sometimes the rest of it can end up taking care of itself.

Here are some points that are vital towards having any type of success. I strongly recommend that if your not doing these on your dates right now. You get cracking and implement them!

1. You must take the lead. If you have any chance of her feeling something for you then you must be a man. You must make the decision of where your going, where you will sit, and ultimately when you will leave.
2. Planning. Whatever you have decided to do with her,  make sure that you have planned everything and know where the two of you are going. Don’t leave things up to her on the first date. Make her feel like she is on your ride. Get it!
3. No Gifts. Don’t show up with any flowers or chocolates. Don’t buy her any flowers or chocolates while on the date either. This is too needy too early on. It comes across as try hard!
4. Mindset. A very important part of everything and what I teach. On your date, change your thoughts of, “I hope she likes me & I hope this is going OK” ( aaarghhh) TO, “She is here with me and I’m giving her a chance to see if I should meet up with her again”. This mindset will come across in the way you behave, guaranteed!!!
5. Body Language. I’m talking about your body language, not hers. Don’t lean into to her and crowd her. Don’t stare at her and look deeply into her eyes like she is the only girl in the world and you would like to marry her. Just Chill, sit back and relax. Let your eyes and thoughts wonder a bit. Make it a little bit harder for her to get your attention at times. Pull her into your world. Have an Independence about you and let it show in the way you hold yourself. Very Important!
6. Discussion topics. Early on in the date, keep things light. Do not get into heavy conversations about life and family. Keep it simple. There are 1000′s of things to talk about. The rule is to make it fun. I have funny stories about things that I have done in the past and people I have met. This makes me interesting and her laugh at the same time. Great!
7. Spice it up. Add come humor into your dialogue. Tease her a little bit about things she does. Make her laugh, show her your not intimidated or too serious. If you know how, Flirt with her!!!
8. Touching. Keep your hands to yourself for at least the first 20 minutes or so. Give her space, give her a chance to initiate touching with you because you are so funny and charming that she feels something for you and cant help herself. After a while you can begin to initiate light touching to show her that you are comfortable with her too. Nothing sexual!!! Not now, no way.
9. Leave First. Show her a good time, Show her what a great guy you are and how attractive you can be and then…end it. Leave first. Tell her its been fun but you have things to do. This is very attractive to her by showing her that you have a life and that you are not your typical clingy guy.

The above STEPS are simple but effective. These are PRINCIPLES that are guaranteed to INCREASE your level of success on your dates.

Women have a SPECIFIC WAY that they do things, they usually have a PLAN and know what they want in a man. This is your PLAN to start off with, to get you through your DATES and give her what she ultimately wants.

Thanks for reading

Craig

There is a lot more to this and I teach this on my boot camps or private 1on 1. I go into even greater detail and explain not only what to do but why it actually works. When you have this deeper understanding of the principals of picking up and the reason why we actually do specific things. You then develop the freedom to do whatever you want because you understand the why behind it all and it guides you in what to do.

I hold regular day game boot camps and private coaching sessions and would love you to join me. 

visit the official website: www.thedaygame.com.au

The biggest thing that you can do to help you to approach women and allow for a better interaction is to let go of any outcome!

If I look at the times when our clients make big breakthroughs in their abilities to cold approach, It’s when they learn to let go of the result and take a genuine interest in her.

A lot of men are fixated on the words they use and have this belief that having the right things to say will see them through to success. They think that the right approach lines will insure they get a better response. Now I do understand that it’s easy for a guy to see a woman that he likes and instead of just talking to her for the sake of it, he feels a need, a reason to justify approaching. He may start things off by asking her for the time or directions or anything similar along those lines. Excuse the pun…

The challenge with this type of approach occurs when you attempt to have a conversation. It is now harder to switch the initial question asked over to a chat.

The other challenge is this. She most likely knows that you just wanted to talk to her and so you end up looking insecure for feeling the need to have an excuse. A guy will try to hide the fact that he wants to meet a girl, so he makes up these excuses for talking to her and so actually makes it harder for himself. He gets off to a bad start because he creates unnecessary barriers. All he had to do was start talking in the first place and stop justifying it.

A woman will respect you a lot more when you are confident in yourself and feel secure with the fact that you want to meet her. If you just walk over and say “hey, I wanted to come over and say hi” she will know that you’re interested in  meeting her. She will also also recognize that you’re OK with this and so respond in kind.

This goes back to your inner-self. If you are one of those men that struggle to begin conversations with girls and believe  that you need an excuse. This is a good indication that more work (on yourself) is needed…

When you have strong level self confidence and lack the outcome dependance. You are free to interact with whoever you want at any time of the day.  This is the proper way to approach women.

By the way, ‘Day Game Dating’ runs a FREE newsletter that goes even further into the topics of effective dating and includes real life stories of men who have been out in the field meeting women. I even answer the majority of questions posed and help with certain sticking points. Again you can have access to it all, and it’s free!

If you have not yet joined up then I would urge you to do so. All you need is an email address which we promise to NEVER share with anyone. Oh, and anytime you decide that you have figured this stuff out and you don’t need our help anymore – You can simply unsubscribe. It just takes a click.

Get on the list by following this link:

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Of course we also hold regular dating workshops and bootcamps and offer a full range of private coaching options. This can all be found on the website.

Talk to you soon,

Colin Dubb

Want to know more about what we do?

visit the official website: www.daygamedating.com.au

Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

I just wanted talk a little bit about our dating courses in Australia. Take all the information that you read on the Day Game Blog and supercharge the intensity 1000%…

There is nothing like real life experience when it comes to both cold approaching women and then escalating for phone numbers and dates.

Over the last 7 years our courses have evolved into something truly special! I am so confident of the value offered that I put my name to a full money back guarantee. I know the results clients see and the insights experienced and I have seen it over and over again.

I would love you to join us on a bootcamp to see for yourself. If you enjoy reading the articles on here and have a feeling that perhaps we do know what we are on about… Come and meet us in person and lets work together to get this part of your life sorted.

We are in Sydney,Melbourne, Adelaide, The Gold Coast, Perth, and now New Zealand.

Day Game coaching will focus on:

• Breaking the Myth that it’s wrong to go up and talk to strangers by explaining why and performing a live demonstration to prove it
• Showing the student that people (woman) actually feel flattered when you approach them, explaining why and then demonstrating this to prove it
• Explaining what’s going on through the mind of a woman when you approach her and how to use that information to make things very natural
• The differences between club game and day game and how to use this information
• How to escalate the initial approach from just talking and building friendly rapport to creating attraction where the woman begins to like you which is vital to her being into you and feeling attracted to you
• What to say to open and how to be genuine but interesting at the same time
• Why comfort is very important in day game, much more so than the club game
• How to not only get her phone number but ensure that the digits are real
• If you choose, how to actually take things from an initial approach to going on a mini date then and there
• A detailed overview of how to move the interaction through the steps from initial approach, to comfort, to attraction, to sexual chemistry and finally to making out and more
• Why you naturally as a male can meet and connect with women and how to bring that out of you so you can naturally have success without having to use techniques and canned material
• The correct body language to use and how to be so in control of the way you move and hold yourself so that you actually attract attention from a woman
• How to use tone of voice, pace your speech, and use your energy to hold attention and create attraction
• See live demonstrations of everything taught from body language to approaching to getting phone numbers
• Students will be taught by being shown what to do and then will make real life approaches themselves with constant feedback
• Each principal will be taught and demonstrated so the student can see things live and then they will practice each principal themselves and be given feedback and reinforcement to ensure that everything is deeply internalised
• A detailed reference of everything taught will be handed to each student for future reference and reinforcement
• Follow-up consultations will be made where student’s questions can be answered.

This is the start to an amazing period of growth in your life, to really get things on track. Have a serious think about it, this just may be what you need.

Thanks for reading

Colin Dubb

Want to know more?

visit the official website: www.daygamedating.com.au

Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

Why Masculine Maturity? To me this is an important topic for both your personal development and growth towards success with women and dating.

Many men that I come across are somewhat child-like in their behavior. These men don’t look like children but rather act like children. They are unsure of themselves and always looking to others for guidance.

I think that an important way to begin the process of growth is to have something to strive for. I think an ideal, perhaps a blueprint of the desired outcome can help you to focus. This is needed in your advancement towards masculine maturity.  If you don’t see the connection between masculine maturity and attractiveness with women then sadly you have missed something.

I have spent a considerable amount of time on this topic and have views on what a mature man looks like. If you are keen to make this connection then continue reading…

Blueprint/Philosophy

Being a man begins with having respect. Respect for yourself as a member of society and respect for other people in this world. A real man does not blame or overly judge people as he is aware that everybody in this world is simply doing their best with what they know. A real man understands this and is aware of this in everyday life. Therefore a man is both patient and tolerant.

A real man also understands that he is guided by what he knows and his level of awareness (or lack of) at any given point. He is just like everybody else trying to get ahead in the world and simply do the best for himself and his family. He always tries to evolve so he can continue to grow (mature). A man understand though that he will make mistakes along the way and because he is learning he does not self loath and get angry. He is simply trying his best and that’s all there is to it. The man will take responsibility for the result without the self anger or resentment of temporary defeat. He is mature and knows he will evolve overtime and succeed.

A real man has a life and is self motivated and stimulating. He understands that he needs people in his life for company and assistance. This is healthy, he cultivates his relationships and friendships for company but does not use interactions with anybody for self validation purposes. The real man does not supplicate to others and use them as a crutch to justify his own self worth in this world. He is far too mature and developed to behave like that.

A real man is confident because of his self reliance and understanding of himself and other people. He can confidently and congruently interact with anybody, both beautiful sort after people and average disadvantaged people. He does not discriminate and will not adjust his behavior for the purpose of impressing or comforting. This is giving away his power and a real man will never do that.

Being a real man is a great achievement in life. It means you have found yourself and your confidence and the possibilities out there. You know that you can achieve what you desire and so will follow your dreams and passions.

A real man lives every day of his life to its fullest. He does not overly complain or take pity on himself and others.
The real man is strong and confident and friendly by nature and outgoing. He loves a challenge and if he truly wants something in life he will pursue it.

A real man understands that in life he will have responsibilities that will need to be met, responsibilities to himself, to his family and his friends. He is self-fulfilling by nature and mature and will take care of these responsibilities regardless of short term pain or disadvantage.

This is some of my philosophy of a real man….

After the pickup lines and so called techniques have failed to yield you much of a result, it’s time to begin working on the bigger picture stuff, the true way to succeed with women, the foundations… This is where it’s all at guys and how you begin the proper process of mastery over women, dating, and developing relationships.

Our courses would have to be the best out there when it comes to dating coaching for men. We have been operating since 2006 and have literally had 100′s of happy clients come through. The best place to begin is to get onto our FREE mailing list where you can also pick up a copy of my eBook The Five Vital Principles for Picking up Women. Follow the link below to get onto this list;

http://daygamedating.com.au/free-ebook

Colin Dubb

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This article was written by a good friend of mine Alex P… Alex and I go out regularly and have some super adventures together.

In the words of Alex…

Gentlemen,

It’s always a pleasure to come back here and recite. I love coming back to my keyboard on the given nights and  expressing insight.

However in-depth and profound these words may seem to be or  how much knowledge you may think you receive, I still am the very practical Greek boy and will say,  NOTHING beats getting out there and feeling for your self. ..These notes are purely for purposes of recording your memories on to paper and then agreeing and re-living the moments later in life  on paper.

These notes are grammatical hindsight measurements,  or in more simpler terms they are REFERENCE POINTS…. For example, You will read theories on how to pick up women and read certain TECHNIQUES and HISTORIES, and then you will say, holy crap  this shit was staring at me in the face the whole time and only now when  I experienced it and can relate it back to the experience at last week’s party I went to,  is when this stuff actually makes sense….

The power of all my EXPERIENCE and then  analysed in such a manner like this where a group can read, reflect and give opinions on, and learn from,  makes everything come together, and make you realize how far you’ve come……….. and how far you’ve got to go…… or how far you feel you need or want to go.

BUT all this has to come down to one little nice remember-able lesson or saying.

So my conclusion is, you must make mistakes in order to learn. E X P E R I E N C E matters.

Why is EXPERIENCE so important.
1. It is real and tangible and it’s practical, your sub-concious mind only talks in the language of physical motion, emotion and repetition, i.e. going out and learning…………….. but only with an open mind will you learn, because the proper way is your way, but you have been conditioned for many years and have to get rid of the muck in-front…. so with the help of GREAT GOOD PEOPLE….. who genuinely care about you,,,,,you will succeed.  [ this statement above does not in any way relate to ANY of us. I think we have a good group, and I'm stressing how good we have it ]

This week I went well and dominated my Super Alpha male god-brother at the library at uni…… which is why I think I am posting…. I ripped him to shreds, and I didn’t even mean to do it. And I was being my total self, pure pathos.(BEING) [I hope so]  I’m trying to figure out why…..

I think the number one rule is DON’T GRAB (TRY TO HARD TO BE ON SHOW AND FILL IN ALL THE GAPS)….. but tease girls and be professional at it.  The comedian Russell Peters says it well: ‘Be a Man’.
I’ll leave it at that…

By Alex P..

If you have not yet joined up then I would urge you to do so. All you need is an email address which we promise to NEVER share with anyone. Oh, and anytime you decide that you have figured this stuff out and you don’t need our help anymore – You can simply unsubscribe. It just takes a click.

Get on the list by following this link:

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Of course we also hold regular dating workshops and bootcamps and offer a full range of private coaching options. This can all be found on the website.

Talk to you soon,

Colin Dubb

Want to know more about what we do?

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Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

A lot of men ask what the differences are in meeting women between the day time and night time environments. Although your approach can be similar in both scenarios, both day and night effects her state of mind and it’s helpful to understand some of the differences to improve your success. Lets first take a look at both…

Day Game is very quite with little or no distraction. Most of the time it is just you and her. A club environment has a lot more going on such as loud music, alcohol, and her friends all circling around as they wait for guys to approach. And these guys will also be competition (another distraction).

With Day Game a woman can be very much in her own world. She is probably not expecting to be approached and most likely has things going on other then socializing with strange men. Things like work, studies, or even what she is going to cook for dinner….

When you go up to a woman on the street she will not expect to be approached as in a club environment. You have to focus very strongly on creating comfort and being non-threatening.

In a club you have external distractions. During the day you have internal (her) distractions.

Smooth Day Game…

The best way to make things natural and to begin creating this comfort is to actually verbalize why you are speaking to her. Saying something like “hey I wanted to meet you” is a great way to start. This releases the tension of why you’re talking to her and enables you to create comfort very quickly.

It also says to her that you are OK with approaching her. If you were embarrassed and were trying to hide what you are doing then you wouldn’t say it. Also understand that trying to hide the obvious by being sneaky about it can freak her out. Your obviously not comfortable within yourself and the fact that your awkward can make her feel awkward.

So the first step in any Day Game scenario is to create comfort. Understand that when she is comfortable then she will let her guard down and open up. She will be more open to a conversation and adding energy into the interaction.

A good approach is an important step in starting off  and will get her to notice you as well as generate interest.

I hope this gives you a bit of help with your efforts in practicing Day Game. If you want further detail I have written a free book that will go further into the topic.  Check it out FREE dating book

Thanks for reading.

Colin Dubb

Want to know more about what we do?

visit the official website: www.daygamedating.com.au

Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

Ok, Colin Dubb here. What is one of the most common challenge that we hear from clients? Not too many points for guessing, and no surprises either. I am afraid to approach women would be the number one concern that we hear at Day Game Dating. Just like dentists have the highest suicide rate in Australia, an interesting fact if you did not know (it’s true by the way, go look it up). Well another common fact would be regarding fear. What do people fear most? First is the fear of public speaking which I’m not going to address at this time, and number two is the fear of cold approaching women. This is what I want to talk about.

Approach Anxiety

Look, having worked with clients around Australia for over four years I have had the privilege to gain a real understanding of this phenomenon known as approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is a term for describing a genuine reluctance in men to approach women. Even thinking about doing it for most men can cause anxiety.

Why Men Are Afraid of the Cold Approach

I will break this down as much as I can. Developing awareness around something can really help to eliminate it. Everybody has an image of themselves or at least an idea of how they want to appear to others. As a defence, we try to see ourselves in a positive light (more so than we really are) and portray some perfection. We want to feel capable and perfect and equally as important, we want other people to see us as capable and perfect. Most people strive to uphold this image as they feel that this is what people will accept.

This is not necessarily a bad thing, I mean we all want to show our best side and make a good impression. Where things go pair shaped is when we begin to minimise any risk taking that may generate opportunity for us in our lives. What if we try something and things don’t work out? People will see this and make bad judgements. They may see us in a way that we do not desire.

Let’s take a look at cold approaching women.

Your walking around with this self preserving image, trying to portray some sort of perfection. You see a woman that catches your eye. There she is, right in front of you, she looks good and is all alone. All you have to do is go over and say hallo. But what happens…

All of a sudden the anxiety occurs and negative thoughts race around your mind. What if I make a mistake and don’t appear smooth, what if I stuff up and what if she doesn’t want to talk to me? All of this fear is tied up with your image. If any of this occurs, than you may look bad.

EGO Based

The above could also be described as very ego based, as in having a very superficial view of the world and where you fit in. If you are only concerned with an outside image and externalities than approach anxiety becomes very real.

I talk a lot about something called authenticity – as in being real, being in the present and being true to yourself. In my way of thinking, if you don’t work through your flaws, and only ever rely on a false front, an image, than you will always struggle. You will work hard to maintain this external perception and lose any ability to actually take risks. In this case, cold approaching women.

Hopefully reading this and getting an understanding will start you on a process, a process of eliminating approach anxiety. I understand that upon first reading this may not make much sense (or it could be just what is needed), but try to think about these concepts and how they may apply to you.

After the pickup lines and so called techniques have failed to yield you much of a result, it’s time to begin working on the bigger picture stuff, the true way to succeed with women, the foundations… This is where it’s all at guys and how you begin the proper process of mastery over women, dating, and developing relationships.

Where to Begin

Our courses would have to be the best out there when it comes to dating coaching for men. We have been operating since 2006 and have literally had 100′s of happy clients come through. The best place to begin is to get onto our FREE mailing list where you can also pick up a copy of my eBook The Five Vital Principles for Picking up Women. Follow the link below to get onto this list;

http://daygamedating.com.au/free-ebook

Colin Dubb

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What if you believed that “women were constantly trying to pick you up?  You new this fact to be true and because of the high amount of women that were trying to get your attention, you had decided not to make it so easy for them? In other words, you have raised your standards. You wont just take the first opportunity that comes your way. You have a higher value than that.

What if you had an outlook like this that caused you to become so confident in your approach and demeanor, that your natural attractiveness sky rocketed. If this was a true statement for you and the effect of a higher perceived value had an instant affect on a woman’s attraction mechanisms. Do you think you would do better with the ladies?

What if you new that you were a valuable man, rare and attractive. It was never a case of getting women to like you, but more a situation of trying to find a woman that fits in well with your standards and life style. We have flipped the coin, your not chasing her, she is chasing you.

Well, I’m telling you that if you are the man that fits within the above statements, picky, confident and harder to please, you will in-turn have a higher perceived value, thus raising your status and causing women to feel much-more attracted to you.

If I had to some up one major concept,that ultimately allowed men more power and choice in their dating lives… This would be it.

Most guys do not take this outlook and have this kind of belief about themselves. In fact, most men think they can make themselves more attractive by playing into the woman ideal of the perfect man. Instead of her going to him. He goes to her. Sucking up, using techniques that will hopefully boost his value in her eyes. It doesn’t work so will though.. Why? Because ultimately your coming from the wrong place. Your trying to get a woman to like you when you should rather have a high standard and self worth and be hoping that you like her.

Think about this, its a very different way of looking at things. It will only lead you up hill.

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By the way, ‘Day Game Dating’ runs a FREE newsletter that goes even further into the topics of effective dating and includes real life stories of men who have been out in the field meeting women. I even answer the majority of questions posed and help with certain sticking points. Again you can have access to it all, and it’s free!

If you have not yet joined up then I would urge you to do so. All you need is an email address which we promise to NEVER share with anyone. Oh, and anytime you decide that you have figured this stuff out and you don’t need our help anymore – You can simply unsubscribe. It just takes a click.

Get on the list by following this link:

http://daygamedating.com.au/free-ebook

Of course we also hold regular dating workshops and bootcamps and offer a full range of private coaching options. This can all be found on the website.

Talk to you soon,

Colin Dubb

Want to know more about what we do?

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Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

Channel 7 Interview Skit

It was featured in The Sydney Morning Herald with the heading, Bootcamp for 40-year-old virgins.

Looking for love? If you’re a guy, there’s no need to borrow an adorable puppy or cute baby to act as a chick-magnet. Dating coach Colin Dubb, 32, of Day Game Dating has designed a program to address what he calls the “disconnect” between men and women.

“Often a man won’t approach an attractive woman because he’s nervous and fearful of rejection. The woman perceives this as him not being interested in her,” says Dubb. “Or, if he does go over to talk to her she may feel nervous and he interprets this as a brush-off. Both think the other doesn’t like them, which isn’t the case.”

But surely, men and women should instinctively know how to attract a partner?

READ THE FULL STORY IN THE SMH

It was featured in The Daily Telegraph with the heading “Blokes – dump the wingman to snare uour lover”

FOR all the blokes who have tried and failed to pick up women using the Mystery Method or Wingman Technique, here is the latest dating advice – stop trying.
If that fails, then take a class. Men’s dating expert Colin Dubb offers bootcamps in which he teaches single men how to approach the ladies.

Mr Dubb said he helped men use their “natural masculinity” instead of backhanded compliments and cheesy pick-up lines.

READ THE FULL STORY IN THE DAILY TELEGRAPH

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Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

It was featured in The Sydney Morning Herald with the heading, Bootcamp for 40-year-old virgins.

Looking for love? If you’re a guy, there’s no need to borrow an adorable puppy or cute baby to act as a chick-magnet. Dating coach Colin Dubb, 32, of Day Game Dating has designed a program to address what he calls the “disconnect” between men and women.

“Often a man won’t approach an attractive woman because he’s nervous and fearful of rejection. The woman perceives this as him not being interested in her,” says Dubb. “Or, if he does go over to talk to her she may feel nervous and he interprets this as a brush-off. Both think the other doesn’t like them, which isn’t the case.”

But surely, men and women should instinctively know how to attract a partner?

READ THE FULL STORY IN THE SMH

Want to know more about what we do?

visit the official website: www.daygamedating.com.au

Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

Holiday Specials are a part of our operation and this Easter we would like to offer you $100 off any workshop (Australia Wide) with Day Game Dating. For the month of April any course booked will be discounted. Simply email us with the heading “EASTER SPECIAL” and the date you would like to book. We will take care of the rest.

I WANT TO BOOK WITH $100 OFF…

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Success with women and dating is closely linked to self esteem, internal value systems and awareness. You must feel worthy as a catch while at the same time understanding  male to female dynamics. Knowing how to flirt, move things forward and make it happen.

Just because you have some kind of success, money looks etc, does not mean that a woman should automatically be attracted to you. Nobody in life owes you anything and neither do women. You must earn their respect and affections. Sparking chemistry works differently to cultivating friendship. Attraction is different. Attraction is a combination of status & value (both internal and relative) combined with social awareness and appropriate  communication.

Feeling internaly strong , non-outcome dependent or concerned with opinions. You should be able to build sexual tension with women automatically. Examples of this would be to casually tease women about cute little quirks, using role playing scenarios as a form of flirting to build up connection and learning subtle techniques for creating anticipation and intrigue.  You can add a bit of game playing to if you like to create further suspense and mystery. Get on out FREE dating newsletter to find out more about how to do this. Just don’t over do it!

The Reality Is…

From the moment you first meet a woman there must be some kind of natural attraction. The techniques and so called game all help, but ultimately in order to truly connect and create attraction and chemistry, you need to give off a natural healthy vibe. If you are only using  techniques to connect with women than something is missing and will prevent your desired success. It will be a constant roadblock.

If you are coming from a place where validation is constantly needed than no matter what external techniques and outer behaviours you exhibit. You will always fall short of generating the appropriate connection needed for solid relationships.

So learning about women and dating and improving your love life is closely related to self development. You must work on yourself as much as you work on your skills. If you self-improve then ultimately your dating life will improve. The rest is all just for fun!

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By the way, ‘Day Game Dating’ runs a FREE newsletter that goes even further into the topics of effective dating and includes real life stories of men who have been out in the field meeting women. I even answer the majority of questions posed and help with certain sticking points. Again you can have access to it all, and it’s free!

If you have not yet joined up then I would urge you to do so. All you need is an email address which we promise to NEVER share with anyone. Oh, and anytime you decide that you have figured this stuff out and you don’t need our help anymore – You can simply unsubscribe. It just takes a click.

Get on the list by following this link:

http://daygamedating.com.au/free-ebook

Of course we also hold regular dating workshops and bootcamps and offer a full range of private coaching options. This can all be found on the website.

Talk to you soon,

Colin Dubb

Want to know more about what we do?

visit the official website: www.daygamedating.com.au

Email: info@daygamedating.com.au

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10 Tips For Meeting Women

My name is John – proud Day Game Dating coach. Please feel free to use my top 10 tips for meeting women. Colin is giving us more air time on the blog to write articles so here goes… Enjoy;

The best way that I find to start a conversation with women is to use something funny and direct. I would always stress that it’s your ATTITUDE behind the actual pick-up-line that ultimately determines how well a woman will respond to you. That’s said, humour placed in any interaction with women will always go a long way in helping your cause. Even if your pick-up-line is lame. If she knows you’re joking and slightly teasing her… This is a good thing!

If you feel great within yourself, you like yourself, and truly feel that you are a valuable and attractive man who simply wants to make these women laugh, you are already miles ahead. It’s this good spirited and care free attitude of yours that will come across in your approach with women. This will ensure you a good response.

It is a matter of taking this care free attitude of happiness and value and projecting it onto a woman (or group of women) for the purpose of generating a smile, a laugh, and the potential to create a good interaction for all involved.

Here are my top ten openers that will achieve this (Again your attitude behind this is key to making it work). Use them and have fun. They will work for you as well as they have worked for me. They are different and show personality on your side of things.

1. She is on her mobile phone texting somebody, you lean over and say “send him my love” Smile

2. She is on her laptop, tell her you caught her looking at nude men, how could she? Look shocked with a smile

3. Two girls are having coffee, you walk in and ask “Is this your first date?”

4. Two girls are at a table having a drink, you pull up a chair, sit down and smile and start apologising for been so late, and ask them what they ordered for you

5. Walk around with a Frisbee, go to the park, spot some girls and yell “catch” throw the Frisbee at them (works well at the beach too)…

6. Girl is at the pub ordering drinks, ask her what drink she is buying you, tell her not to go overboard, beer is fine and you’re not that fussy

7. Ask a girl, who is smoking for a lighter, when she gives it to you, simply put it in your pocket and with a straight face, continue talking to your friend like nothing happened. (this one is hilarious) She should come over and laugh

8. Clink your drink glass (at a pub) with random girls glass, Say “Geez your rough, lets try that again”

9. High five girls, pretend that she hurt your hand, she will be apologetic while laughing

10. At the bookstore, she is reading a book, lean over a whisper, “gosh, free loader, uni education free of charge hey”

Try these, have fun with them and use them as a way to get an interaction going. This will start things off in the right way and allow a more light hearted interaction

This is what you want to achieve when you first approach a woman. Keep the interaction simple and light hearted.

If you want a full education of the process of steps to take, how to tease and flirt with women to really create a strong attraction and get into the important mindset of a guy that is successful with women. There are three Great options.

1, Download our eBook ‘Day Game to Girlfriend’
http://daygamedating.com.au/day-game-to-girlfriend-ebook

2, Take a “Day Game” Bootcamp
http://daygamedating.com.au/sydney-melbourne-and-brisbane-bootcamps

3, Take a “Night Game” Bootcamp
http://daygamedating.com.au/night-game

Thanks for reading and I hope to meet you in person soon.

Day Game Dating Coach John.

Every guy I meet through my work as a dating coach has something in common. He is not satisfied with his love life. He wants to learn how to meet more women and create stronger connections. He wants to know how to approach, what to say, and how to act to facilitate a good first impression…

Now – I have a few friends that are incredible with women. Unfortunately they fail to understand why other guys struggle. In other words, they don’t understand what the issue is. There advice would be to “just toughen up – be a man and go for it – and if it doesn’t work out, try again – and if that fails. Move on.” Sounds so simple doesn’t it?

I was out the other night with a good friend of mine. We went to a well known club in Sydney. Now this guy is superb with women. He is like a walking magnet and attracts attention where ever he goes. He can even give me a run for my money… Well sometimes (jokes).

Not only does my friend approach women, but women also approach him.

We are having a drink by the bar and he says to me “Col, see all those guys standing around checking out the girls – they might as well go home if they plan on picking up, they look so unhappy and needy.” “Why don’t you go over and show them how it’s done?” I laughed and told him to mind his business and finish his drink. He then begins to tell me that there is probably nothing I could do to help them anyway.

Now keep in mind that this guy is a true natural with women. His had amazingly gorgeous girlfriends and always has other girls hanging around hoping they will be next. Is he arrogant? Yes! But… Does he have the slightest clue about why he is so successful? Most likely, the answer is no.

The comments that he made to me about not been able to teach them anything and help them out… I asked what he meant by that.

Carefully read his answer – it’s full of gold and typical of the true natural’s outlook.

My friend goes on to tell me that they these guys look desperate. They are totally focused on scoring for the night. He says “they don’t even know how to have fun with their friends.” He explains that even if I gave them some magic pick up lines and things to talk about, they would be so focused on trying to get the girls to like them that it would just scare them off faster.

My friends words, not mine…

Now as I stated, my friend is very successful, but he does not consciously know how he does it. He just has fun in the moment and creates his own luck. He has a vibe. And it’s this vibe that draws women in. In his mind he is successful is because he is able to have fun while expecting that women will join in. He doesn’t feel the need to try.

You see, men that are unsuccessful with women don’t know how to have fun without them. On some level they are always looking to get attention and impress. They need a woman’s approval. This neediness is what ultimately pushes them away.

Men want to learn the so called “secrets” but there are none. What you do and say to a woman will not attract her. Its how you live with yourself that determines your success.

This article is full of little nuggets of gold. Think hard about the content… It could be the realisation that you need.

Talk to you soon.

Colin Dubb

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Testimonial letter from a client received this year. He asked me to post it as he wanted to share his experience. After reading this, how could I decline… Thanks James.

Hi Colin,

I thought I would write this testimonial for you to put on your website, or show to some clients. Its just about the journey i have taken and how you have helped me on the way.

In 2007 I had just graduated high school, i was a budding 18 year old and studying full time. I had spent pretty much the last 4 years of my high school life, liking a girl i knew and never making a move. One thing about me is when i want something or someone i close off any other possibilities so i never pursued any other girls (apart from the odd drunken night in high school). Well i finally made the move when i was 18 and she kept saying she was busy maybe later i was too blind (or naive) to realise she was not interested. It would be another year before i got the hint. Well i spent all of 2008 licking my wounds wishing things were different, to scared and inexperienced to talk to woman because i had spent all my time chasing a girl who was not interested and had not picked up the confidence or skills to do it. It was clear i needed help, so i began to read up on seducing women, i read anything and everything there was from certain techniques (such as negs, etc. Which i feel are gimmicky) to becoming the “Alpha Male.” One website that was helpful was http://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm which i learned inside and out and had a lot of the things that Colin taught on it.

Well 2009 came and i was about to join the police academy, life was good and I was over my high school crush. I met a girl at a party, got her phone number and went asked her out on a date, which she said yes. This was my first ever first date since 2002 when i was 14. I asked her to the movies, and i can safely say it was the worst date i had ever been on. I was ridiculously nervous, my car broke down, she lived about 40 minutes from me and i got lost, i was really late, and i had not planned what movie we were seeing. She was not impressed when i finally turned up, and was texting on her phone the entire movie. It took me a few months to get over this, but it would be the greatest failure I have ever had. I took a lot of lessons out of this i still use today. Plan dates in advance and do something where you can actually talk and flirt. If you know your going to be late, tell her at the earliest point and explain why.

So I went to the police academy and spoke to a few girls but nothing really eventuated, I met this one girl who I got her phone number at a friends birthday party. I fell head over heels for this girl and took all the fun out of the chase, I wanted a relationship right from the start and i did not give her any chase. Which was the next lesson i learned. Never take the thrill out of the chase or it would just fizzle out quickly

When I finally graduated in 2009 i started working at the police station, i met a girl who i worked with and our personalities meshed together like something else. We had spark, we found each other attractive, we got along great… She had a boyfriend. This one was funny because I could feel myself falling for her but i could not do anything about it. I didn’t want to fall but i did. It was unlike anything i had ever experienced i felt sick to my stomach at the sound of her name and the fact that i couldn’t tell her how i feel. I couldn’t even stand to look at a photo of her without feeling like i was being stabbed in the heart. In 2010 i decided to get out there and start dating again, it was the only way to move on from her, i met a girl off a dating website and we went on a date. It didn’t work out because she said i was too nice and i felt more like her brother. This would be the case until i went to Colin in 2011.

I did private coaching sessions and that’s where Colin taught me how to still be the nice person i am but not lose the attraction of women. He was surprised with all the stuff I already knew that he tried to teach me and would question why I was there and that I knew more than I gave myself credit for. I had had a horrible run of luck with women, it felt as if everything would fall apart no matter what I did and because of this i had a deep fear of rejection. Colin helped me to overcome this and not see it as a huge deal. After 10 weeks, i went out with Colin and some of the guys who were also doing private dating coaching lessons, we were all supportive of each other and to be honest I just needed to be pushed a little by Colin. I was nearly having a panic attack at the start of the day i was so nervous. But no matter who Colin would pick out i would go up to and i would be successful. This gave me a huge boost of confidence.

Here was my downfall i was still hung up on the girl i worked with, and this other girl i was speaking (and really liked) with was just an attention seeker, she just loved to be chased but had no interest in me. It was here i learned that if a girl is interested in you, things will be easy. If there are obstacles she will be just as willing to over come it. I mean if Jennifer Hawkins was asking you on a date and you had an obstacle, lets say the day she asks you out your busy. You would do one of two things if your interested. Either move what you have on or if not then suggest another time. If a girl wants to date you enough then it will be easy enough

So things stagnated for a while. Colin told me i need “lead sources” which is basically a few girls i would speak to at a time so i don’t get emotionally involved with anyone too early. I did not heed this advice right away and stayed hung up on these two girls until i made the decision to finally accept that the only way forward was to move on from the girl from work. So every time i would think of her i would tell myself she is taken and it is not going to happen, i would do things like look at photos of her and her boyfriend on Facebook and tell myself it cant ever happen. To be honest it was a real dark time in my life but it needed to happen. This gave me a fire inside me, a desire for freedom, a desire to become the person who did so well was out with colin and the other guys. So the girl i was hung up on invited me to her birthday party, i popped in bought her a drink from the bar. I asked her for time alone and said to her “Is this going to head somewhere or not? i don’t care i just want to know.” she got really angry at me for some reason, and told me know. I told her “Fine” and walked out. Don’t get me wrong it tore me up inside but i walked away, went to the club my friend was at and went home. When i was in the taxi she called me and told me to come back so we can sort things out, when i told her i was in a taxi she again got angry at me. I guess she didn’t like being called out and having her attention removed from her. It was here i learned that i had been subconsciously sabotaging myself because i refused to accept there was no chance with these women, turns out i had been doing it my whole life. So i made the decision to not get emotionally invested too early. As funny as it sounds, if your willing to walk away from the girl your speaking to or dating it gives you the best chance of getting her. You make clear decisions and it becomes about her trying to impress you just as much as you impressing her.

So a few months went by and i was free from all the women i had fallen for, everyone at my work at this stage would tease me for being single and having bad luck with women. I had a trip planned to Europe with some people from work and one guy told everyone behind my back that he was going to pay a prostitute in Amsterdam to seduce me so i finally had luck with women. Some people ended up telling me this, but i said nothing, you see i knew by this stage i was back and i would be fine. Well Europe comes around i end up kissing 6 girls and sleeping with 2(losing my virginity in the process)… Here is the sweetener, i slept with one of the best looking girls on my tour, the same girl that the guy who was going to get the prostitute for me was chasing for the whole trip

So i came home from Europe and thought i would try internet dating again, i went on a few dates with little success. I never took it to heart and to be honest each failure spurred me on further, i knew i had it in me to do it now. I also met some girls when i was out, and it is now at the stage where i have to try and not meet girls because it happens by accident ( i have a girlfriend now). So i met my current girlfriend online, she is a former promo model and was about to be a part of the Australian Lingerie Football League, but they cancelled the competition here. I’m not going to pretend I’m a ugly because I’m not, I’m not the drop dead good looking guy either. I’m what girls would say is “cute”  my body shape is average, i don’t have massive muscles or anything like that. People sometimes say they cant believe she is with me, it does not worry me because Im confident enough in myself to know i deserve her. I also tell myself when they say this that after everything i have been through and all the bad luck i have had i have more than earned a great girl like her. Truth is she is more into me than i am to her at this early stage anyway.

So some parting advice with my story, you can be Mr Nice Guy and get the girl, just do not be a doormat. Don’t ever do something to please or impress her, do it because its what you feel like doing. Never be scared to speak your mind or challenge her beliefs (within reason) if you disagree. Always playfully tease her, particularly if its something she isn’t happy with and can change easily e.g. on my first date with my girlfriend she kept talking about how she hated her hair and it looked bad, my reply was “I didn’t want to say anything, but it does” i just sat there and smiled at her. She just slapped me softly on the hand and called me mean. I still stood by my comment, she was waiting to see if i would back down and i didn’t which showed i was not a door mat. Finally apart from the advice listed above, always have your dates planned to the tee and have back ups ready so you can be flexible if something happens.

Thanks so much for your help Colin

James – Sydney

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To become incredibly successful with women I work under the premise that knowledge is power. If you understood the structure of courtship, what women look for in a man, took the steps into becoming that man, and then effectively demonstrated it… You would be highly attractive! To be in a situation where you know without a shadow of doubt that you are the type of man that women crave, because you understand what traits women crave and that YOU exhibit them.

So where do you start, how do you change?

I believe there are four important stages to the transformation process. It is these stages that will need your strong focus and attention.

They are;

1, Identity - Finding yourself, as in self discovery, what internal baggage do you carry (self doubt/fear/complexes) and removing this baggage as to become a happy and healthy person.

2, Social Awareness – Learning the subtle processes of social interaction and specifically the effective communication styles used between males and females.

3, Structure – A plan to follow allowing you to move systematically through the stages of meeting, dating, and intimacy. (Courtship)

4, Become Interesting – The ability to successfully convey a genuine and interesting personality that will carry you through the various stages of the courtship process.

There are certain animalistic and biological personality traits that women seek out in men. When these traits are demonstrated it has an almost magic like effect on a woman. She responds! In order to cultivate these traits and then communicate them effectively a transformation process needs to occur. The above four points are your roadmap. Each area should be worked on. This may take some time but it is well worth it.

By the way, ‘Day Game Dating’ runs a FREE newsletter that goes even further into the topics of effective dating and includes real life stories of men who have been out in the field meeting women. I even answer the majority of questions posed and help with certain sticking points. Again you can have access to it all, and it’s free!

If you have not yet joined up then I would urge you to do so. All you need is an email address which we promise to NEVER share with anyone. Oh, and anytime you decide that you have figured this stuff out and you don’t need our help anymore – You can simply unsubscribe. It just takes a click.

Get on the list by following this link:

http://daygamedating.com.au/newsletter

Of course we also hold regular dating workshops and bootcamps and offer a full range of private coaching options. This can all be found on the website.

Talk to you soon,

Colin Dubb

Want to know more about what we do?

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“Rejection,” that word that makes so many men cringe.

Why won’t most men approach that group of women that they see sitting by the bar, or go up and talk to that girl during the day eating her lunch?

Again that word “rejection” comes up. It seems that most men are scared of being rejected.

Let’s take a good look at rejection. Is it really such a bad thing and could perceived rejection possibly be a much needed stepping stone onto enjoying more success in your interactions with women?

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I would break that down even further and look at things in “short-term” and “long-term” perspectives.

You see, life is about taking risks, and when you are aware that you can never fully grow and move over to that next level of success without risking failure (rejection at some point). You realise that you have no choice in the matter and you will just have to take a chance and go for it!

You hopefully realise that time old saying of “nothing ventured nothing gained” most definitely applies to the game of love.

The fact of the matter is this… If you see a woman that you would like to meet and take a chance by approaching her, you risk potentially getting rejected. That’s a given.

The positive flip side to all of this is that you are also creating an opportunity for yourself to potentially hook up with somebody that you find attractive. This opportunity only occurs because you are approaching her and risking rejection.

In this immediate situation (short-term) of approaching her and taking a risk. If rejection does occur and things don’t work out… This is still an incredibly positive outcome, because you are learning.

In the overall scheme of things (long-term) you will have the much desired success. Taking risks and interacting with women in a broad range of situations, regardless of outcome, is schooling you in the complexities of the dating world. You are learning new skills and proving to yourself that rejection does not hurt you. It actually makes your stronger.

You are also improving your people skills through trial and error and gaining much needed experience.

So is rejection such a bad thing? I would strongly suggest that it’s not. It’s simply the way that you perceive it.

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Rejection should actually make you happy as it’s a great indication that you are on the right track, taking chances and learning. You are proving to yourself that you are strong enough to deal with it and can get back out there. I say “the more rejection the better.”

A time will come in the not too distant future where, not only has rejection stoped having a negative emotional effect on you, but it occurs much less as those early hard knocks that you took have allowed you to develop great skills.

Now you know how to approach women and generate much more consistent results, all because you learned to deal with rejection early on.

Take a chance, life is short and remember. Rejection is your friend.

Good luck

Colin Dubb

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