The Frustration of Learning Curves

I thought I would write a little bit about something called a “learning curve”.

It’s always fascinated me how we as human beings learn and master new skills. The reason that I find this subject so interesting is mainly due to the fact that I myself love learning.

I believe that understanding about “learning curves” is extremely helpful to any person attempting to master something new… And improving your skills with women is no different.

When it comes to picking up women, most men want the pick-up lines and impressive moves. They believe that this is what’s needed to see them through. And that’s understandable… You don’t know what you don’t know.

Only when you get out there and really hit this hard, do you realize how much deeper this subject is. It becomes apparent that it’s not so much about the words and actions…It’s more about sorting out internal baggage and removing limiting beliefs.

At this point the work has begun and the first step to mastery with women taken. Be cautious though as noticeable improvement can be slow- especially during those early days… When you’re on a journey doing both doing the internal work and out in the field… Most of the time it can feel like you’re just not improving. This is normal!

When learning a new skill, there can be long periods of frustration and you feel like you just aren’t progressing. Hell, sometimes you even feel like you are going backwards and regressing.

Reading articles, keeping a journal and hanging out with like minded individuals can definitely help to speed up the process and minimise frustration.

When our client’s attend our programs, their confidence and skill level will spike due to the intense nature of the sessions.  But we know from experience that the road to mastery is ultimately a journey that is fuelled by strong desire, persistence and support. You need to stick at it and take advantage of any help offered along the way.

It’s a downside of human nature to want the results without putting in the effort. Most people want something for nothing.

Like everybody else, I also want things, financial freedom, success etc. At times I to have looked for shortcuts and immediate results. This has never lead me to my desired outcome. Its only when I began to realise that any worthwhile achievement takes time and ongoing effort, did I start to make progress.

Now when I make up my mind to achieve something, I plan carefully and take massive persistent action. This is the sure way to win!

• Do I get instant long-term results? Not usually.
• Does progress seem slow or non-existent? Yes, mostly during the early stages.
• Do I keep going forward regardless of challenges and setbacks? Always!!

When attempting to learn something new, master a skill and attain some type of success, it will seem like the whole world is against you… The more effort you seem to put in, the more setbacks occur.

“THIS IS THE TIME WHERE YOU’RE PERSISTENT NATURE AND DETERMINATION IS TESTED. DO YOU REALLY WANT IT BADLY ENOUGH AND ARE YOU WILLING TO WORK THROUGH AND FIND A WAY?”

The path to success can be slow and painful, but the rewards well worth it!

Remember this article in times of frustration and challenge… Always keep moving forward!

Talk to you soon.

Colin Dubb

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