Your Fear of Talking to Women
October 6, 2009Posted Under: Dating Articles,Recommended Reading
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What are your fears when it comes to talking to women? I can bet that it’s all very counter-intuitive. Try these for size, see if you can relate?
1, Fear of not making a good impression.
Trying to impress women actually works against you, this is not how the dating game is played.
2, Fear of not having things to say and talk about.
This fear comes from the belief that a woman is the the only prize in the interaction and so she must be sweet talked. The reality is, she should also have to come up with things to talk about to keep you interested. There are two or more people involved in any interaction. Never forget that!
3, Fear of failure.
She also misses out if it doesn’t work out. Your concern should be that that she failed to impress you as you initially liked her. Its a loss for both of you.
4, Fear of negative opinions, hers and others.
This is a sign of low self esteem on your part. This is unattractive and you should work on this. We should be the centre of our lives, while other people are our guests. Other people’s opinions should not matter if you believe in yourself as doing the right thing.
5, Fear of feeling like a fool.
Taking action in meeting women is empowering and leads to personal growth and success.
6, Fear it won’t go well.
It won’t go well for whom? It should always go well for you. You took action leading to growth and eventual success. How can that be failure, even if this particular one does not work out? You are following your natural desires as a man. It’s normal and healthy to want to meet good women.
7, Fear of a destroyed ego.
Good! An over inflated ego is false, fake, and holding you back. Your ego is a crutch, an over compensation for low self esteem. This is even more of a reason to take action.
8, Fear she won’t like you for whatever reason.
Seriously, toughen up! Again, you are also a prize. Re-read the above seven fears until they are burned into your head!!
9, Fear of not having good game.
At the end of the day, anything is always better than nothing. Experience is the best teacher. If you put yourself out there, take a chance and fulfil your natural and healthy drives to meet women, this will only lead to success and happiness. Don’t forget the increase in self confidence.
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