A Real Man Wants Women In His Life

August 26, 2009
Posted Under: Dating Articles,Recommended Reading,Uncategorized

Hey,

I’m going to talk about something rather deep today. This is the concept of been OK with who you are and wanting to have women in your life, been upfront about how you feel and going for it. I would call this the “Master Level of Attraction” Becoming the ultimate MAN.

Its just occurred to me recently that most guys have a deep-seeded NEGATIVE belief that wanting to have women in their lives is somewhat wrong. When they come across a woman that catches their attention, they immediately try to cover up the fact that they are attracted to her and hide their intentions. Really think about it. Usually on some level, it has been conditioned into men that our drives of wanting to sleep with women and pursue them is something negative, something to be hidden. We should feel bad about it and apologise for wanting to CONNECT.

How many times have you seen a woman that catches your eye, whether it be at work, a social gathering, or on the street, and for some reason you didn’t act? You felt stuck and awkward about the fact that you’re attracted. Then you came up with excuses. Maybe she is not available, or I don’t really know what to do. How about this one? I’m not good enough. Awe painful, isn’t it!

If you really think about it. These are just excuses for not being true to yourself and feeling that its ok to go for it. On some level, you believe that these emotions you’re having of feeling attracted to her are a BAD thing. That you should side step the truth of the situation with techniques. You still try to hook up with her, but rather come in on an angle. Instead of just being upfront and honest, you complicate it. And actually PUSH it away!

Now just to clarify. I’m not talking about expressing your UN-dying love for a woman in the stereo typical needy kind of fashion that most men do. You know I mean… Telling a girl that you have feelings for her and hoping that she will return the gesture. (Usually after spending weeks talking to her) Can you relate?

What I am talking about is acknowledging the fact that you find a woman attractive from the very beginning of seeing her. Being up front about this attraction you feel and expressing it. But, and here is the big But! Coming from a place of total ease and inner-contentment. Total self sufficiency and non-reaction seeking. In other words, your motive for expressing your desire is NOT to generate a reaction, but to rather express how you feel, both pursuing it and giving her a choice. You are coming from that rare, but incredibly ATTRACTIVE place of the real-man! The type of man that acknowledges what he wants and goes for it. Making no apologies and not feeling bad about it. A man who takes action!

How many times do women ask “where are all the real men?” Let me tell you, I hear this all the time. This is frustrating for both sexes. Women can’t find men and men can’t attract women. So we either stay single or we settle.

It needs to change. Be a real man, who knows what he wants, knows how to act and does not feel bad. This will not only help to fulfil your dating aspirations and needs, but it will also help the women in this world by giving them what they want. REAL-MEN!

It’s almost a responsibility, not a choice. Start working on this today and catch up. You have a job to do!

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