A More Attractive Proposition

What if you believed that “women were constantly trying to pick you up?”  You new this fact to be true, and because of the high amount of women that were trying to get your attention, you had better not make it so easy for them. You just don’t have time to date all of them and have had to raise your standards. You wont just take every opportunity that comes your way. You are more  valuable than that.

What if you had an outlook like this that caused you to become so confident in your approach and demeanour, that your natural attractiveness sky rocketed? If this was a true statement for you and the effect of a higher perceived value had an instant effect on a woman’s attraction mechanisms. Do you think you would do better with the ladies? (Read that last sentence again if that was confusing)

What if you knew that you were a valuable man, rare and attractive, and it was never a case of getting women to like you, but more a situation of trying to find a woman that fits into your standards and life style? We have flipped the coin, your not chasing her, she is chasing you.

Well, I’m telling you that “if you are the man that fits within the above statements, picky, self confident and harder to please.” “You will in-turn have a higher perceived value, thus raising your status and causing women to feel much-more attracted to you!”

If I had to sum up the one major concept, that ultimately allowed men more power and choice in their dating lives leading to much more success with women… This would be it.

Most guys do not take this outlook and have this kind of belief about themselves. In-fact, most men think they can make themselves more attractive by playing into a woman’s ideal of the perfect man. Instead of her working to attract him, he tries to attract her. He meets her, sucks up and uses techniques thus trying to game her. He hopes to boost his value, his attractiveness in her eyes. The problem is, he doesn’t really believe it himself, and unfortunately for both parties, this comes across. Insecurity, neediness and failure.

So this doesn’t work so well.. Why? Because ultimately your coming from the wrong place. Your trying to get a woman to like you, instead of having enough self worth and potential to just assume that she does.  (Read that again, its so important.)

Think about this, it’s a very different way of looking at things, but will only lead you up hill..

Colin

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